It's not clear how widespread this problem is, but I've not had any problems with the iPhone 5 cable and the USB socket on my new MacBook. However, I have noticed that the socket is very loose with some gadgets I use. Sometimes when plugging things in they aren't recognised and I have to remove them and plug them back in. I wonder whether Apple is using slightly bigger USB plugs and sockets? It shouldn't be because USB is a universal standard.
On a different, but related topic, is it always better when something is smaller, lighter and smoother? In some cases it is, but not always. A problem I have with my MacBook is that I find it very difficult to unplug from the mains socket. Different countries have different power sockets, so this may be a UK problem.
We use three-pin plugs that take quite a bit of force to insert and remove from sockets. The three-pin plug on the MacBook's power cable is smaller, lighter and smoother than most of the other plugs for electrical gadgets I use like TVs, toasters and so on. The small size and smooth shape makes it difficult to get a good enough grip on the plug to pull it out from the socket. I wouldn't mind so much if my house power sockets had on/off switches, but they don't. Unless you want something powered up 24/7 you have to pull the plug from the socket. It's really hard with the MacBook's power plug.
The iPhone 5 is even worse. I plugged it in to charge it up and when it was done I couldn't get the plug out of the power socket. I tried and gave up and left it. I came back later and tried again and after a couple of minutes of effort I managed to get it out. I nearly resorted to prising it out with a screwdriver. (Screwdrivers and power sockets don't play well together, so don't try this at home folks.)
It's a serious problem and there's no way I can use the iPhone 5 power plug as it is. Perhaps I could superglue something to the back of it to help pull it out, but I'm not sure it could withstand the force required. For the moment I can use the MacBook to charge the phone or my old iPad 2 power supply which is large, but easy to use. The iPhone 5's (UK) power plug looks great, but it certainly isn't practical.